ipaddr2 hours ago
The mindset of wasting 9 months going on dates instead of starting something is so foreign. Based on what this person was looking for (someone to build out his ideas) he would be better off trying to get funding and hiring someone.
It was a job interview (50 question homework, 3 day hackathon trial) plus firm requirements and who has the final say is presented. We didn't hear about the different tests and requirements these 100 dates demanded so it appears one sided.
The best way to meet a cofounder is to be interested in something; so interested you explore it and you find something you like someone else is doing and you talk to them about it. You come up with some idea and you reach out to this person and explore it.
lionkoran hour ago
Is this how you make a soulless throwaway "hope I get acqui-hired" type company? It doesn't sound like there is a lot of passion to make something great.
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braza14 hours ago
> They want to work on this part-time > They want to quit their job but haven't set a date to do it > They're going to quit their job but only after the YC interview
I resonate with the OP because I am in this exact situation that I am building something but I cannot leave my current job now.
When some friends started to build companies in mid-2000/mid-2010 you could code/build something, try to get some traction and you could be received by VCs/angels and occasionally they could write a 25K check for you to work for 3-6 months to build it and perhaps you could get some traction and then scale or go burst.
Now the bar for new products it's absurdly high if you're out of the YC or San Francisco VC circles or if you do not have anyone in the industry; plus most of the VCs prefer to invest in "pedigree founders" than in unknown people, especially if those people are outside of the bay area.
In my first endeavor, I went with a finished product that undercut some big enterprise SaaS vendors, and we lost space for a bunch of non-technical guys with PPTs and one idea.
pj_mukh3 hours ago
Honestly, in this situation, you want paying customers not VC-funding. YC at least has an objective application process (VC's don't, it just cold-email) and even then the acceptance rate makes it a non-viable dependable strategies. Especially if you're enterprise SaaS..the question you need to answer is, how do you get a customer to pay?
(Sometimes having a co-founder here helps to answer this question)
j4514 hours ago
People playing their options on multiple fronts is even worse than finding a way to increase and maintain the increased levels of participation.
l7l14 minutes ago
There is also a free little tool for cofounder alignment called https://aligna.team
logotypean hour ago
I’m looking for a co-founder, running https://fixparser.dev which is a profitable company with clients worldwide. Been applying to YC twice but failed - will continue the search for funding. Reach out at [email protected] cheers
elicksaur13 hours ago
> I spent 9 months and almost 100 “cofounder dates” finding my cofounder.
What’s the highest value company that was started with a method like this? Genuinely curious, can’t think of one.
rob313op13 hours ago
Good q and I can't name one either. Though I suspect when you're successful you tell a modified story about how you met.
"I ran a tight interview process and selected the best match based on vibes and a spreadsheet" isn't super inspiring to customers, employees, investors.
aduffy9 hours ago
Dropbox comes to mind.
think_build13 hours ago
Yes, what happened to building side projects? Meeting people that you've worked with that you would care enough to build something with?
themanmaran11 hours ago
Suppose it's the same as online dating vs "meeting the old fashioned way".
I'm also pretty partial to "just work on your hobby and meet someone else". But probably a lot of opportunity left on the table that way. Especially if you know you want to build something serious.
jasfi4 hours ago
Coinbase is probably an example.
inquisitor275528 hours ago
thats like doing tinder instead of talking to users and building it
kidintech41 minutes ago
I wanted to label this as a “nothingburger”, but all the pieces of advice are either tautologies, vague general dating tips (i.e. "make sure the vibes are not off"), or straight up untrue: "They want to work on this part-time", "They want to quit their job but haven't set a date to do it", "They're going to quit their job but only after the YC interview". The latter are all very context dependent and are impossible to label as a "red flag" without further information. Possibly SEO bait?
doodaddy13 hours ago
Sounds like a standard hiring workflow with some questions tailored for the role. Is this supposed to be revelatory?
neilv5 hours ago
> Browse profiles and then adjust your own profile based on the best examples.
What does that mean?
KTibow4 hours ago
I think it just means "learn how to make a good profile by looking at some good profiles"
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ackbar033 hours ago
I think finding cofounders is one of those things where the best time to start was always last year or two years ago
taytus3 hours ago
Shooters gonna shoot I'm working on something new. It's pre-seeded and MVP is almost ready, and pilots will start in three weeks. It involves AI and education. I'm an engineer, raised VC money before, and I'm planning to raise again. If you love sales and want to learn more, email me.
goodpointan hour ago
> Red flags to watch for > They want to work on this part-time > They want to quit their job but haven't set a date to do it > They're going to quit their job but only after the YC interview
...so this guy wants someone in SF to quit their job and work full time while unpaid? This method selects from the bottom of the pool, not from the top.
jonathanstrange9 minutes ago
Isn't that the difference between a co-founder and an employee? I'm assuming that half of the company will belong to the new co-founder, of course.
mnahkies16 minutes ago
Devils advocate: people in a position to work full time unpaid have probably enjoyed outsized success in their career to date
kidintech38 minutes ago
Got spooked by the exact quote you mentioned, but your conclusion is more precise. You're correct, this is a recipe for messing up your chances lmao.
behnamoh14 hours ago
No-bs mode is the ultimate mode tbh. Whatever you do, do it w/o making a hype, coining marketing words, and exaggerating.
Arubis14 hours ago
This sounds like a recipe for never getting funded, sadly.
dartos3 hours ago
That’s almost demonstrably false if your goal is to get funded.
Just look at the pear AI guys.
givemeethekeys14 hours ago
This whole "mode" shit - stupid start up yuppies and their movements.
ratg1311 hours ago
I think the kids call it “sigma mindset”
Same stuff, but for 12yos
aaronbrethorst2 hours ago
Tech bro yuppie mode
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